The number one rule about resetting your relationship is consciousness. Know being kind and generous with your feelings towards your partner are valuable building blocks for your relationship. It isn’t much different to how you treat your pets.
How does your pet greet you? Do they wag, bark, meow, squeak or squawk? How often do you give a big squeeze and a kiss to your cat, dog, horse or even turtle before you turn to your sweetie or your child and give them one?
How to Show Love to Your Partner First and Your Pet Second
It’s probably happening right when you walk in the door. You go straight for your pet before acknowledging your partner’s presence. While dogs can be almost difficult to ignore as they happily jump or try to lick you as you come through the door, I promise they won’t be offended if you went straight for your loved one first.
I know it seems silly but try it. You will be amazed at how people’s defenses come down and the positive feelings start to grow. See what happens when you make that switch. It can make a real difference to the person you care about!